Do All White Men ?

that are married to a women of another race do this, me and my husband just got married a few months ago, and we have had two arguments since. In both arguments he said this is why I should have married my own kind, even though I was quite the whole time he has also become controlling of me and wont let me talk to some of my black friends becasue he says they are a improper influence on me. is this the norm for white men or is ever guy like that? Am I reading to racially into ? I mean I love him, but now his actions make me feel as if I would have been better off with a black guy, even though color should have nothing to do with it.