Help! what will be his next move....?

Forget him..its his loss.if he doesnt want to be around hes a loser who will miss out on the wonderful gift of being a parent...Just do your best for your child and avoid uneccesary drama..it effects your kid too much which ever side it comes from...Im a father who has fought hard to keep contact with my child..she is the world to me me i look forward to every chance i can be with her...dont use your kid as a weopon to hurt another person your kids work it all out in the end....just tell child support then he is obligated to pay a fair share worked out on his wages he can only ignore them for so long they will eventually deduct his wage plus extras ..believe me im paying for it.,,goood luck things can get messy at times...above all show your kids love not anger