28 Year Old Guy Here Who Needs Others Dudes Help On How TO Deal With A Childhood Event?

I totally agree with the answer that Mike gave. Be your own man now. Parents mess up. When your a parent you'll know what I mean. They probably didn't address the situation properly but I'm sure did the best they knew how. It's life. We all develop differently through all the stages and parents have to figure it out along the way. What ever the situation was, it is in the past now. You got past it so let it go. Pursue your goals and gain that self confidence to be your own man. Who knows why they felt justified. Maybe you had an accident and they felt that they could humiliate you into no more accidents. All kids have accidents. Some more than others but it doesn't really mean anything. It's just development at natures pace instead of your parents. Your not less a person because of a childhood event unless you keep it alive. It's your decision, Let it go!